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Tuesday, February 27, 2018

How To Seduce And Totally Disarm Your Person Of Interest – Part 2

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Part 2
Lead Astray;- Creating Pleasure & Confusion.




Most of us understand that certain actions on our part will have a pleasing and seductive effect on the person we would like to seduce. The problem is that we are generally too self-absorbed. We think more about what we want from others than what they could want from us, we may occasionally do something that is seductive, but often we follow this up with a selfish and aggressive action, we are in a hurry to get what we want, or unaware of what we are doing.


Our attempts to seduce usually do not last long enough to create much of an effect. The Seductive Process Continued;

1.    Keep Your Subject In Suspense
The moment people feel they know what to expect from you, your spell on them is broken, you have ceded them power. The only way to lead the seduced along and keep the upper hand is to create suspense, a calculated surprise. Doing something they do not expect from you will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity, they will not be forced to foresee what comes next. You are always one step ahead and in control. Give the subject a thrill with a sudden change of direction.

2.    Use The Power Of Word To Sow Confusion
It is hard to make people listen; they are consumed with their own thoughts and desires, and have little time for yours. The trick to make them listen is to say what they want to hear, to fill their ears with whatever is pleasant to them. This is the essence of seductive language. Inflame peoples emotion with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities, envelop them in sweet words and promises, and not only will they listen to you, they will lose their will to resist you.

3.    Pay Attention To Every Detail
Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be suspicious, why are you trying so hard to please? The details of a seduction; the subtle gestures, the offhand things you do are often more charming and revealing, you must learn to distract your victim with a myriad of pleasure and rituals, thoughtful gifts tailored just for them, clothes and adornments designed to please them, gestures that show the time and attention you are paying them, Mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what you are really up to.

4.    Alternate An Exciting Presence
Important things happen when your targets are alone; the slightest feeling of relief that you are not there, and it is all over. Familiarity and over exposure will cause this reaction. Remain elusive then. Intrigue your target by alternating an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberant moments followed by calculated absences. Associate yourself with poetic images and objects, so that when they think of you, they begin to see you through an idealized halo. The more you figure in their minds, the more they will envelope you in seductive fantasies.

5.    Disarm By Deliberate Show Of Weakness And Vulnerability
Too much maneuvering on your part may raise suspicion. The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger. If you seem to be week, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control yourself, you will make your actions look more natural, less calculated. Physical weakness;- tears, bashfulness, paleness will help create the effect. Play the victim, then transform your target’s sympathy into love.
6.    The Perfect Illusion; Confuse Fantasy And Reality

To compensate for the difficulties in their lives, people spend a lot of their time daydreaming, imagining a future full of adventure, success and romance. If you can create the illusion that through you they can live out their dreams, you will have them at your mercy. Aim at secret wishes that have been thwarted or repressed, stirring up uncontrollable emotions, clouding their powers of reason. Lead the seduced to a point of confusion in which they can no longer tell the difference between illusion and reality.

7.    Isolate The Subject
An isolated person is weak. By slowly isolating your victims, you make them more vulnerable to your influence. Take them away from their normal friends, family, home. Give them the sense of being marginalized, in other words, they are leaving one world behind and entering another. Once isolated like this, they have no outside support, and in their confusion they are easily led astray. Lure the seduced into your lair, where nothing is familiar.







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