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Monday, February 26, 2018

How To Seduce And Totally Disarm Your Person Of Interest – Part 1

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Part 1

Seperation;-Stirring Interest & Desire.



Throughout life we find ourselves having to persuade people, to seduce them. Some will be relatively open to our influence, if only in a subtle ways, while others seem impervious to our charms. Perhaps we find a mystery beyond our control, but that is an effective way of dealing with life. The seductive processes;


1.    Select Your Right Person
Everything depends on the right target of your seduction. Study your subject thoroughly, and choose only those who will prove susceptible to your charms. The right subjects are those whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic. They are often isolated or unhappy, or can easily be made so, for the completely contented person is almost impossible to seduce. The perfect subject has some qualities that inspires strong emotions in you, making your seductive maneuvers seem natural and dynamic. The perfect subject allows the perfect chase.

2.    Indirectly Make Approach
If you are too direct early on, you risk stirring up a resistance that will never be lowered. At first there must be nothing of the seducer in your manner. The seduction should begin at an angle, indirectly, so the target only gradually becomes aware of you. Haunt the periphery of your target’s life, approach through a third party, or seem to cultivate a relatively neutral relationship, moving gradually from friend to lover. Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike.

3.    Convey Mixed Signals.
Once people are aware of your presence, and perhaps vaguely intrigued, you need to stir their interest before it settles on someone else. Most of us are much too obvious, instead be hard to figure out. Send mixed signals; both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthly, both innocent and cunning. A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. An elusive, enigma aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into your circle. Create such power by hinting at something contradictory within you.

4.    Be An Object of Desire; Create Circles
Few are drawn to the person whom others avoid or neglect, people gather around those who have already attracted interest. To draw your subjects closer and make them hungry to possess you, you must create an aura of desirability of being wanted and courted by many. It will become a point of vanity to them to be the preferred object of your attention, to win you away from the crowd of admirers. Build a reputation that precedes you. If many have succumbed to your charms, there must be a reason.

5.    Develop A Need; Stir Anxiety and Discontent
A perfectly satisfied person cannot be seduced. Tension and disharmony will be instilled in your targets’ minds. Stir within them feelings of discontent, an unhappiness with their circumstances and with themselves. The feelings of inadequacy that you create that will give you space to insinuate yourself, to make them see you as the answer to their problems. Pain and anxiety are the proper precursors to pleasure. Learn to manufacture the need that you can fill.

6.    Learn The Art of Insinuation
Making your target feel disqualified and in need of your attention is essential, but if you are too obvious, they will see through you and grow defensive. There is no known defense, however, against insinuation, the art of planting ideas into peoples’ mind by dropping elusive hints that take effect days later, even appearing to your target as their own idea. Create a sublanguage; bold statements followed by retraction and apology, ambiguous comments, banal talk combined with alluring glances, that enters the target’s unconscious to convey your real meaning. Make everything suggestive.

7.    Enter Their Spirits
Most people are lost in their own worlds, making them stubborn and hard to persuade. The way to lure them out of their shells and set up your seduction is to enter their spirit. Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt yourself to their moods. In doing so you will stroke their deep rooted narcissism and lower their defenses. Indulge your targets’ every mood and whim, giving them nothing to react against or resist.

8.    Create Temptation
Lure the target deep into your seduction by creating the proper temptation; a glimpse of the pleasures to come. As the serpent tempted eve with the promise of forbidden knowledge, you must awaken a desire in your target that they cannot control. Find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint that you can lead them towards it. The key is to keep it vague. Stimulate a curiosity stronger than the doubts and anxieties that goes with it, and they will follow you.





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